An honest person IS a kind person.
To me it's both.
Of course it is important! if you're not kind and honest not a lot of people will like you or trust you
I would say kind. Someone could be honest and mean. So I say kindness is more important than honesty.
Being honest. Of course its even better to try to be both
Kindness is for the weak and cowardly. Honesty is... Well, honorable.
I think that they're complementary to each other.
If you're honest without being kind, you're not being really honest. Simply because, by being rude in saying the truth, you're not staying true to yourself and to them. Being honest also requires compassion. When you're being honest with someone is generally because you're seeing the whole person, rather than only a part of them that you might focus on. A person once wrote:
"Honesty, without the kind recognition that we are all suffering and defending ourselves against suffering, is not really honesty."
The combination between honesty and kindness makes us see and accept the vulnerability that we all share. Hope this helps! (:
Both.
I understand the dilemma. Sometimes brutal honesty is very unkind. The compromise is tact.