Yes, we can. I believe firmly in fate and destiny and we have the ability to make our own through our actions in life. Nice question. I do believe in it ! Very much so.
Do you believe that we really have a lot to do with making our own "fate" in life?
Yes. We only make our fate. That may be by chance or choice.
We are on our own in our own minds so yes. You will never see the world the way somebody else does