No such thing as spells.
How can I use spells for a boy?
I'm not a believer in 'spells' .. And even if I did .. It seems rather pointless to have to 'spell' someone in order to get them to care for you.
Being liked or loved by someone must be given as a 'gift' .. You can not force someone to feel love. It must be given freely and without being manipulated .. Spelling someone would suggest that their attention towards you would be controlled and manipulated like a puppet on a string .. THAT is not affection, FAR from it .. THAT is something I would want no part of.
devils play where Angels fear to tred.