Hey, I've been dating my girlfriend for over two years. We just recently moved in together. I'm a little concerned because she tells me she has been having dreams every night about an old crush who happens to be getting married. Should I worry?

Nicole answered

I wouldn't worry about anything I think the only reason she has been dreaming about him is because he's getting married so shes thinking of their old relationship. It really means nothing and shes not hiding anything as she told you so means you shouldn't worry about her hiding anything or getting back with him you only dream about things you have thought about that's all hope everything goes well for you both x

Matthew Spurling answered

Yes you should be shes maybe lieing just to trick you trust me I can tell a trick you better find out who she has a crush on and say back off shes mine or something like that and I'm only ten and I know how to deal with this stuff jez no wonder why my parents say I grow up fast

Arthur Wright answered

Maybe just a little but after all these are only dreams and how can a dream hurt us? Usually our dreams signal a problem in our lives and makes us think about the past so why she is thinking about a past BF is unknown unless you two are having relationship difficulties and shes having second thoughts about having moved in with you or it could be that somehow being married seems more attractive to her and thats what she really wants here with the stability factor and the atigma that comes with being married so you might want to think about here. The latter is what I suspect more of here

aimee frederico answered

I believe dreams are little pieces of our lives and thoughts and strange things can happen in dreams. I wouldn´t worry especially as the ex is getting married! Also I believe if you truly had something to be concerned about, she would not have told you in the first place unless she wants you to feel jealous!!! Remember Girls are a funny species!!!!! :)

tia klark answered

I don't think you should worry its just a dream. Now if she starts talking about her ex a lot you should ask about it. Dreams are dreams nothing more.

Rhett Miller answered

Well, obviously she trusts you enough and loves you enough to talk to you about it, so I wouldnt worry. If she actually still had feelings for him she probably wouldnt be telling you about it because she would feel guilty

Hey, I've been dating my girlfriend for over two years. We just recently moved in together. I'm a little concerned because she tells me she has been having dreams every night about an old crush who happens to be getting married. Should I worry?

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