The fact that you are asking this question shows that you take your faith seriously and that you try to act in a moral and ethical way. Nevertheless, screaming, yelling, or being aggressive and rude is not a very effective way for a son or daughter to make his/her parents listen. In fact, screaming and being rude to anyone is not a good form of communication, as it makes the other person feel that he/she is being attacked, resulting in a defensive attitude. This will make it much more difficult to overcome differences.
According to Christian teachings, being rude to anyone (and certainly to one's parents) is, indeed, a sin. According to Catholic teaching, however, this could fall into the category of a venial sin (which is less serious), or a mortal sin (which is very serious), depending on the circumstances and on your intentions. It may also simply be what we call an "imperfection," if the root cause behind the screaming and rude words is a lack of patience, or an inability to appropriately channel one's frustration. Nonetheless, being purposefully rude, with the intention of hurting your parents, goes against the fifth commandment, which calls on everyone to honour their mother and father.
Parents are not perfect--after all, they are simply human and they do make mistakes. If you can show your parents that you are mature and can sit down with them and calmly tell them that you think what they have done is unfair, or inappropriate, they will be far more likely to listen, as you will not appear offensive and they will see that you are genuinely trying to solve this situation.
According to Christian teachings, being rude to anyone (and certainly to one's parents) is, indeed, a sin. According to Catholic teaching, however, this could fall into the category of a venial sin (which is less serious), or a mortal sin (which is very serious), depending on the circumstances and on your intentions. It may also simply be what we call an "imperfection," if the root cause behind the screaming and rude words is a lack of patience, or an inability to appropriately channel one's frustration. Nonetheless, being purposefully rude, with the intention of hurting your parents, goes against the fifth commandment, which calls on everyone to honour their mother and father.
Parents are not perfect--after all, they are simply human and they do make mistakes. If you can show your parents that you are mature and can sit down with them and calmly tell them that you think what they have done is unfair, or inappropriate, they will be far more likely to listen, as you will not appear offensive and they will see that you are genuinely trying to solve this situation.