Why Do I Keep Dreaming Of My Ex Husband And We Get Back Together In My Dream?

I had the same dreams for a long time well after our divorce. I would wake up and momentarily have these feelings of "love" for him while in my head I knew this was crazy! It was the same theme, different details.

It took me forever to understand it but eventually I think I have. Now I don't know what this will mean for you since dreams and symbolism are always personal and relative to the dreamer but I will share it anyway. Dreams, as most of know, are never really about other people but about our SELF just heavy laden with symbolism. In this case, the ex husband simply symbolizes those things about myself that I loved and have cut off out of my life when I left him and wanted nothing to do with him. They are the good qualities about my SELF that I needed to accept, love and let prosper in my life. They are the things I loved about him so they are worthy of loving within myself too. For me, I know that the dreams have little to do with what the previous answer is (unconsciously wanting to be back together---so not true) but has to do with how I feel about myself. Yes, I left my ex husband with good reason. Sadly things didn't work out but such is life but in that process of leaving him, I ended up leaving good things about my Self behind too that I needed in my life. The only reconciliation taking place was the one within mySelf.

I hope that helps you.

Solstice

I think you are dreaming of what you once had with your exhusband that you do not currently have in the present. We hold on to the good moments in our relationship once we can get past the hate and truly begin to forgive. It is a painful transition although in time we will accept things as they truly are in the moment.

Perhaps subconciously you want that to happen, so it is happening in your dreams. It sounds as though you have some feelings for him that are still "alive and well."

It's a part of you that wants things to go back to how they were and you want him back even though you are not together anymore something somewhere in you misses the bond you two had