It is important that you understand him and what he is really like, try not to make it haraam as the shaitaan whispers in your ear while you are alone with a male or a female so brothers and sister take in mind that choosing your own oposite sex is not haraam or wrong just try and make sure that you do nothing sill before marriage even if you know no one is watching remember that our god (SWA) is always there!...don't let yourself down and go tell the person that you love them so that you may get married.
